If you've been following the whole fancypants party dress saga, you know that my Mother-In-Law gave Mazzy a dress to wear to her first brithday party that I deemed more fitting to wear to Buckingham Palace for tea with the Queen.
For clarity's sake, I should tell you that there were actually two birthday parties. One was a party for friends that I documented last week where Mazzy wore an entirely different dress and the other was the family-only party that we had at Grammy's house this past Saturday. Got it?
Long story short, I was less than enthused about Mazzy having to wear such a fancy dress to her party. It's not really mine or Mazzy's style.
But the joke's on me, because it turns out the dress and all of it's aforementioned fanciness not only looks obscenely cute on the baby but it photographs beautifully. I loved so many of the pictures of Mazzy in the thing that I included a link at the end of the post so you can see them all for yourself. (By them all, I mean a select few. If I were to show you "them all" you would not be able to leave your computer without several bathroom breaks and inquisitive phone calls from concerned family and friends).
And that's not even THE CRAZY PART.
Let's just say, the blogging gods were smiling down on me when they delivered this made-for-tv ending to the mother-in-law-gives-fancy-dress-to-granddaughter-and-ungrateful-daughter-in-law-blogs-about-ridiculousness-of-said-dress-on-rival-blog-but-savvy-mother-in-law-finds-blog-post-anyway-and-in-a-surprise-twist-finds-post-hilarious story.
Ready?
We've been trying to get Mazzy to walk for a while now since she started crawling so early. Not PRESSURING her or anything— just standing her up to see what happens. But she's so good at crawling (as evidenced here) that it seems like she doesn't feel the need to exert the extra effort. She'll humor us by standing still for a second but then drops to her knees to efficiently crawl wherever it is that she needs to go (baby luncheons and movie matinees and what not).
BUT. It turns out if you put a baby in a dress with a lining of crinoline underneath, crawling becomes a hell of a lot more difficult. Do you know where this is going?
MAZZY WALKED FOR THE FIRST TIME ON SATURDAY.
We put her in that fancypants dress with the golden pantaloons and she had no freakin' choice.
She tried her best to crawl but the crinoline kept getting in her way plus it must have been pretty uncomfortable on her knees. SO. I stood her up and Mazzy ended up taking her very first steps(!!!)
Here's the video evidence, pathetic crawling and all:
Once again, I must thank my awesome Mother-In-Law. Especially for the pictures below which never would have happened without The Gift of Awkwardness that ridiculously cute dress. Besides it being magically photogenic and forcing the baby to walk, the dress taught me that it is much easier to get Mazzy to sit still for the camera when she is encumbered by her outfit.
The lesson: If you want your baby to start walking (or sit still for a picture), put them in a hoop skirt, an over-starched tuxedo or a homemade Rubik's Cube costume. Lack of mobility will give them the motivation to explore other options.
Where was that in the parenting handbook?
Laughing my ass off here at the ways of karma.
Which OBVIOUSLY also wears golden pantaloons! XD
Ummmm…me and Mazzy? Totally rock out in gold pants. Holla!
My son took his first steps a few days before his first birthday. Look out Momma…this is when the real fun begins!
cute stuff.
I have two theories about the awesomeness of these events. A) Mazzy has totally been faking it with the crawling all this time, waiting for the moment with the most drama in which to reveal her walking magnificence. Once you provided her with gold pantaloons she knew it was, as they say, “Time for her close up, Mr. DeMille.”
B) Your mother-in-law has magical powers, which if you’re lucky she may some day pass on to Mazzy.
Also, she looks unbelievably good in that dress. Did we try cake, again? Has she shown any interest yet? Cause I gotta say with a fashionista swagger like that she is clearly your child.
I must say the dress is not nearly as horrifying as you described it! I can see how Dress #1 for Party #1 was much more your style, but seriously, your MIL is pretty great. You should tell her so again, then ht her up for a weekend away…alone! She can then play dress up with Mazzy all she wants 😉 Congrats on surviving the 1st bday!
I think you are on to something with “A”! That would sound just like my child.
We did try cake again. Carvel ice cream cake. There was crying.
I knew Karma sometimes wears a disguise but I had no idea it could be dressed in fancy pants!
Mazzy has not walked since we took that dress off her. No need.
I know it. In my defense, on the hanger, it looked like a floor length gown, not a cute little mini. And the gold fabric and gold sparkly dots are really best viewed in real life. But don’t worry, I thanked her again. And again, and again, and again:)
Not sure about the gold pantaloons, but the dress is adorable. Not in a hip East Village sort of way of COURSE, but still cute!
First, she looks adorable. The dress really does photograph beautifully.
Secondly, you obviously need to be wary of future collaborations between your MIL and Mazzy. I see years of those two conspiring before you 😉
God damn she is cute. The dress isn’t bad. NOt my taste either but God bless your MIL. MY ex MIL would’ve been very pissed as she would have purchased a dress very similar to that one only WAAAYYYY uglier.
Holy crap. I was all excited to read about the whole part you wrote up there with all the hyphens debacle. WE talked about it on Twitter, and then…I forgot. Hey, it’s December. And I’m sleep deprived. So I’m so glad you had a surprise twist and I got to see the posts now, instead of after Christmas when I’m planning on catching up on my blog reading, cause I so needed an awesome giggle today. And Mazzy rocks that dress!
I’m glad it all turned out good. Sometimes people surprise us. In my family, there would have been bloodshed.
And hey, if you do get invited to tea with the queen in the next few months, you’re set!
She’s only one. There is plenty of time for WAAAYYYY uglier dresses. I’m sure there’s a holiday dress lurking somewhere that will jump out at any moment and terrify us all.
Ultimately, I’m glad my MIL bought the dress because otherwise I would never have seen how my baby ROCKED it.
But I will definitely keep my eye on them!
Next year, we’re gonna give her a fauxhawk and some combat boots. Then at three, we’ll move her to Brooklyn and try out a mustache.
Oddly, I think the bloodshed would have been on MY side of the family. People on my side go for years without speaking over way less.
Glad you got to catch up on the debacle turned birthday miracle.
Happy Holidays!
Just found your blog via Bloggy Moms and am laughing a lot at the MIL dress. Am going to have to get something like that for my little crawler… perhaps put some little Doc Martens on the bottom to ‘balance’ the look and keep me sane.
I love how Mazzy is attempting to crawl and her little foot keeps getting stuck in the bottom of the dress, poor thing. Also, the dress functions very effectively as a parachute when her legs give out from walking! My nephew just started walking, too, and from the video evidence I’ve seen, there are no pantaloons involved (unless they’re underneath the pants he’s wearing…).
I’ve never posted on your blog before, but I am cracking up because:
a) My daughter wore a similar dress for her party, on the same day (Saturday, 12/11).
http://picasaweb.google.com/heather.kaplin/RebeccaSFirstBirthday#5550561432862648898
b) She took her first steps on Saturday too! She took a few in her PJ’s in the morning for us, and then took several in front of the “crowd”. We didn’t get a great video, but we did catch something:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGbjohgm5wU
I hate the pantaloons too, why couldn’t it just be a simple diaper butt cover?? I actually cropped this photo of all 3 of us because it was ALL pantaloon from that point down:
http://picasaweb.google.com/heather.kaplin/RebeccaSFirstBirthday#5550561416510413458
We actually got the dress because we were trying to do a group portrait with Rebecca’s cousins, and that was one of the few nice-looking dresses that we were able to find a matching one for a size 6 girl. Me being as cheap as I was, I figured I should get 2 uses out of it! 🙂
P.S. Rebecca also COMPLETELY rejected cake at her own party! This is starting to be a bit freaky… lol
Happy Birthday to Rebecca! Clearly they were meant to be best friends. Although, I think Mazzy might be a little jealous of Rebecca’s impressive head of hair. A ponytail! She’s practically a teenager!
The Doc Martens might make the walking difficult. I recommend a black leather choker with studs.
I will be sure to take the dress with us as a precautionary measure the next time we travel by plane.
Go Mazzy! Good walkin’
You should seriously blow up that picture of her at the piano and hang it on a wall. It’s absolutely gorgeous! Also, I’m pretty jealous of the extremely clean and glowing floor.
The photo with Mazzy by the grand piano is perfection. The lighting, the composition, and of course… the dress.
Your daughter looked gorgeous in her dress! Mind you she’d look gorgeous in a potato sack too.
Then I watched the awkward crawling/first steps video and I definitely shed a tear. It reminded me of the day my son took his first steps.
<3
I’m jealous of the floors too. They’re not mine. They’re my mother’s.
What can I say? The girl is the perfect muse.
I watch that video over and again. The sounds she makes when she is trying to crawl in the beginning CRACK ME UP. So glad I was able to get it all on video.
I’m just seeing this now, but I, too, don’t think the dress is as bad as you described! I think she looks supercute and glad you have such a great MIL!
For whatever reason, on the hanger the dress looked FLOOR LENGTH. In actuality, it was a miniskirt as you see above. That saved it BIGTIME. Also, it’s much golder in real life. But I STILL have an AWESOME MIL:)
Just for the record, that dress is gorgeous. I love baby girls in dresses that are not designed for teenagers or adults. She looks too adorable for words. And if she can rock gold pantaloons, she can rock ANYTHING ;p
I LOVE the photo with the piano!
She looks really adorable in all the photos, though.
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