Mazzy is a NYC kid. She lives in a downtown apartment, plays in sidewalk garbage and thinks cockroaches are adorable. (I made that up. She’s never even seen a cockroach. Although she does have a pet rat named Mayor Bloomberg.)
Mazzy has been riding on the subway and waving at homeless people since she was only a few months old. She’s also made drug-like deals at the Central Park Zoo and randomly bumped into Elmo on the street— he does live here after all.
And every night before bed, we say goodnight to the skyscrapers outside our window (good night Empire State Building, good night Chrysler Building, good night horrible Verizon building that ruins my otherwise awesome view).
In order to raise a kid in New York City, a person must really love it immensely. Otherwise, there’s no reason to deal with the lack of space or the insanity over getting your kid into preschool. Mike and I have talked about moving to the suburbs but ultimately, we don’t want to deal with the commute and love the easy access to friends, family and amazing restaurants (yes, food figures that highly).
New York City is also one of the easiest places on earth to give a kid a little culture.
For instance, Mazzy’s already been to the Museum of Modern Art where she fell in love with a complex piece called “The Escalators”. And we had an eventful trip to the New Museum (a day I call “Innocence Lost”) where Mazzy was confronted with a 10ft tall statue of a naked warrior woman with a pistol sticking out of her crotch. (It greeted us as we got off the elevator with a great big— SURPRISE! I’LL BE IN YOUR CHILD’S NIGHTMARES FOREVER!)
And there are so many quintessentially NYC things we have still to do.
She hasn’t been to Coney Island or seen Times Square at night. She’s yet to experience the parade of elephants down 34th Street or the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade (the hugest Elmo of them all). She’s never seen a Broadway show or ice skated at Rockefeller Center or seen the T Rex at the Museum of Natural History. We also need to take a trip to the top of the Empire State Building, a walk over the Brooklyn Bridge, and a ferry ride to Ellis Island.
In short, having a kid in New York City means turning into one big tourist.
But when I think about Mazzy’s face seeing the Jumbotron for the first time or the Christmas windows at Saks Fifth Avenue, I’d strap on a fanny pack and eat at the Olive Garden any day of the week.
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Mazzy isn’t the first kid to grow up in the Big Apple. Below is a round-up of my ten favorite children’s book characters based in New York City.
1) Larry Gets Lost in New York City – a dog gets a tour of all five bouroughs in NYC taxi cab
2) The House on East 88th Street – a crocodile named Lyle lives in the bathtub of a brownstone on the Upper East Side
3) Knuffle Bunny: A Cautionary Tale – Trixie’s dad leaves her stuffed bunny in a laundromat in Park Slope, Brooklyn
4) Corduroy – the department store where Corduroy lives is rumored to be Macy’s in Herald Square
5) How Little Lori Visited Times Square – a boy and his difficult quest to get to Times Square
6) You Can’t Take a Balloon into the Metropolitan Museum – a girl and her grandmother chase a runaway balloon past NYC landmarks
7) Pale Male: Citizen Hawk of New York City – the true story of a red-tailed hawk who built a nest on the top of one of Fifth Avenue’s swankiest apartment buildings
8) Who Needs Donuts? – Sam leaves his house in the suburbs in search of donuts in the big city
9) Eloise – the famously precocious girl who lives in the New York Plaza Hotel
10) Olivia – the strong-willed little pig regularly visits Jackson Pollack’s Autumn Rythym on display at the Met
UPDATE: Inspired by Sara from Periwinkle Papillon, I’m adding one more book to the list— And Tango Makes Three. It’s the true story of two male penguins at the Central Park Zoo who fall in love and want to start a family together. I think it’s the perfect way for a Manhattan based mommy blogger to honor my state’s long-awaited decision to legalize gay marriage in New York.
I’m all kinds of envious that you live in my favorite city ever. I need to move there, Monkey in tow, STAT.
*Snort* Mayor Bloomberg the rat
I hope that didn’t sound like a political statement. Not my intention. I actually like Mayor Bloomberg.
Did she like Rothko’s paintings? Great round up, love those books. Olivia is a very popular cartoon in UK.
What wonderful children’s book? I love that Mazzy enjoys all aspects of the museum.
I know exactly how you feel! Raising my boys in Rio de Janeiro is the same way. My kids say hi to bums, don’t blink an eye at trash on the street, and can hail a cab before I can.
She did actually. But I think she was more excited by all the space to run around it was a lot of work to stop her from touching things.
The first time we went to a museum, I took her in the baby carrier. I think I would try that again next time.
I wish it was just that Mazzy didn’t blink an eye at the trash. Instead she finds it fascinating and wants to pick it up.
I find it absolutely adorable that you say goodnight to the skyscrapers. THAT could be a whole children’s book. (Seriously. That’s a great idea. You should get on that.)
Also, Corduroy was one of my FAVORITES. So nostalgic.
So I was just like— you are right! that is an awesome idea! And then I did a quick google search and found this:
http://www.amazon.com/Good-Night-York-City-World/dp/0977797937
Google ruins everything.
We love Little Lori and that crazy turtle. We live in Brooklyn so it’s a little different but we are constantly revisiting the conversation about whether or not to move. So far, we always decide the pros outweigh the cons. And we’ll stay until we decide differently. We have the great good fortune of having seats at an excellent public school so that helps. It can happen! I have absolutely no influence or money or connections…we got lucky.
F*ck Google.
That book looks SUCKY. (The font is Comic Sans. :shudder:)
It would have been SO much better and prettier if you would have done it first. Bet you anything, I would have wanted that book for my coffee table. Still do.
OMG! I love that you know Comic Sans is the most horrible font known to man! Are you a designer?
I thought the same thing when I saw the cover. So badly done. Shame.
Might I also recommend the hipster-poet-beatnik book My Subway Ride? Goes all over NY celebrating diversity around the boroughs.
http://www.amazon.com/Subway-Ride-Paul-DuBois-Jacobs/dp/1586853570
Don’t forget Lyle Lyle The Crocodile! He lives at East 88th Street of course or are we snubbing the Upper East Side?
Somehow I missed that you had that one as #2 – never mind!!!
crap. did I go to spam? lovely
I left a comment about visiting w/ my 22 yr old niece. She was in awe of the city -and how many families we saw!
This post is very Carrie Bradshaw-esque in its love for NYC. 🙂
I’ve been there twice. The first time was awesome. My boyfriend and I stayed at a friend’s apartment in the financial district overlooking the river and Colgate Clock (and that, after 9/11, is sadly no longer in existence) and did a whole bunch of touristy sightseeing. The second time was not nearly as charming. I stayed with my gay friend in his tiny studio in Chelsea and spent my entire trip feeling completely invisible as we partied with all his gay friends and he spent nearly every waking moment on his phone. Seriously, I’m a huge hag, but this was TOO MUCH. But you make me really want to visit the city again.
Although I did get to see Phantom during my second trip. Which was amazing.
I lucked out enough to move to NYC and have my daughter within a month, so she has given my touristy whims some validity.
We LOVE Olivia.
We have that Good Night New York book (it was a gift) and it DOES suck!
We visited my sister who lived in Park Slope when my son was 18 months for about 10 days. We had such an awesome time exploring Brooklyn, Coney Island and Manhattan. We talk about going back when our daughter is a bit older. Their Aunt gave them Knuffle Bunny and pointed out all the landmarks in the book that we had seen while we were there.
She also gave them “This is New York” which was originally copy-written in 1960! However it has updated information listed in the back so it’s not totally out of date.
http://www.amazon.com/This-New-York-Miroslav-Sasek/dp/0789308843/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1309463006&sr=1-1
I adore the city but could not imagine the chaos of living there, especially with a child. And I dunno if I could trade my suburban life for that. This is why I love Jersey – best of both worlds. I get my suburban peace, but can hop on a train and have the culture I crave in just an hour’s ride. My son has already been to the Javits Center (via train and bus!) he’s only 2. I have so much more planned for him – I can’t wait to take him into the city!
PS – Have you ever noticed that only people in the tri-state area call it “the city.” I taught middle school in Florida and when I mentioned the city, they were like, “The city? What city? Tampa?” I gasped at their little deprived minds!
I LOVED LOVED LOVED Corduroy and the House on East 88th Street when I was a child.
So this post was my smile for the day.
p.s. NY – you rock. Wish California would be able to make the same decision and STICK WITH IT.
What’s up left coast? let love rule.
Okay, now I want to move to NYC and have kids. It’s normal to make such decisions based on a blog post, right?
I KNEW IT!
Meanwhile I am trying convince my husband that we can move to Brooklyn instead of the burbs and he says the school situation there is no better than in Manhattan. Good for you that you got a good spot!
Depending on where you stay, you can have an entirely different trip. I suggest The Bowery Hotel or the James Hotel. Both lovely downtown spots, one in the east village and one in the west.
As for me, it is a rare rare day that I venture above 14th street.
I’m a native so waiting on line to go to the top of the Empire State Building is a lot harder to swallow.
I did it when I was little though!
I love that book. I had it on my list originally but then because I had too many, decided to narrow it down to books that were about NYC characters instead of just New York. I know— a dumb distinction no one would notice but me.
I’ve referred to Manhattan as “the city” in Europe. They look at you like you have five heads.
I like Jersey. I would move there before Long Island.
The House on 88th Street is the best. Such an endearingly oddball book.
Absolutely. I wield my words with apartment listings and plane tickets.
Both my parents and my husband’s parents have been IN the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade. None of their ingrate children have come to watch the spectacle, despite having accommodations available mere blocks from Herald Square. I love that you’re raising her in the city. Plus: no carseat debates.
Raising my kids in Washington, DC has a lot of the same advantages, although it’s a totally different city experience. My favorite part is that they see nothing abnormal about walking down the street and hearing 6 different languages being spoken on every block. My daughter’s best friend lives half the year in the US and half the year in Ethiopia. My kids definitely are going to have a much better understanding of their place in the larger world than I ever did growing up.
Raising my kids in Washington, DC has a lot of the same advantages, although it’s a totally different city experience. My favorite part is that they see nothing abnormal about walking down the street and hearing 6 different languages being spoken on every block. My daughter’s best friend lives half the year in the US and half the year in Ethiopia. My kids definitely are going to have a much better understanding of their place in the larger world than I ever did growing up.
I always read about people who have trouble getting a spot in a “good school” – but it just isn’t reality here in Minneapolis.
Just came across your blog – great stuff.
My vote’s for ‘Jenny and the Cat Club’ by Esther Averill!
My sister and BIL live in Brooklyn. I’ve been twice and LOVE being in the city. I’m from FL so my first visit was a bit overwhelming I admit, second trip for their wedding was wonderful! I’d move in a heartbeat but my husband is not a city person. at all.