When I was pregnant with Mazzy, Mike was searching high and low for the perfect push present for me.
Ummm… maybe I should be more clear.
When I say Mike was searching for the perfect push present for me, I mean, I was searching for the perfect push present to tell Mike to get for me.
This is just how things work.
I decided a necklace engraved with my baby’s initials would be the perfect gift, but thought it was bad luck to get it before the big day, so Mike gave it to me closer to my first Mother’s Day. Three years later, I added a second child and a second charm to that necklace; a necklace I have worn almost everyday for the past five years.
“Mom Jewelry” is a term I didn’t know before I was a mom, but now it appears to be everywhere. Sentimental necklaces, rings, bracelets that do double duty as a pretty piece of a bling and a handy reminder if you ever forget your children’s names.
“I said stop pushing your sister— ummmm… uhhhh… what’s your name, again?”
Stop. Look down at necklace. See the letter M.
“Oh, that’s right, Mazzy.”
You laugh but you have no idea how often I have stumbled over Harlow’s name or how many times I have called Mazzy by my sister’s name.
There are many options for Mom Jewelry out there, but sometimes it’s hard to know what you are getting. You want something significant but don’t want to spend three years worth of diapers in one shot.
Carved Creations, a jewelry shop based in Austin (every New Yorker’s favorite city in Texas), makes substantial mom jewelry (they call it “mother’s jewelry” because they are fancy like that), using a blend of old world craftsmanship and the latest technology to customize high quality pieces with names, birthstones and birth dates. They will even do it in Roman Numerals if you prefer. There is nothing more significant than Roman Numerals.
I went on the site planning to get their stacking ring set. You can stack bands personalized with your children’s names and birth dates on top of gem rings with your child’s birth stone. I got one set for Harlow and one set for Mazzy and stacked them together.
Then I saw their LifeNames Toggle Bracelet and had to have that too. I put all four of our names around the circle enclosure just to drive it home that Mike and I will not be having any more kids.
And lastly, I saw their collection of men’s rings and thought of the perfect holiday gift for my dad and stepdad. My father was known as Jerry most of his life, then Dad once he had kids. But within the past five years, a new name has superseded every moniker he’s had before.
His name is Poppy.
That was the name he selected instead of Grandpa and it stuck. So much so that I have switched his name from Dad to Poppy in my phone. (This was partly because every time he called I said, “Dad is on the phone” and then my kids would get confused.)
The other Grandpa in my life is my stepdad. We have always just called him Sam. So, five years ago, I came up with the perfect new name for him too.
Grandsam.
Can you think of a better gift for Poppy and Grandsam than engraved rings making their new names even more official?
Me neither.
I got the LifeNames Sleek Band for Poppy and the LifeNames Channels Band for Grandsam.
I actually think “nickname jewelry” should be the newest trend in family fashion. Do you have a special name for your mom, dad, grandparents, aunts or uncles?
Leave a comment below telling me the nickname you would like to make official on a customized piece of jewelry and you could win one of three $250 gift cards to Carved Creations (CCforLife.com).
If you don’t think you’ll get lucky, you can use the code SHORTS50 to get $50 off any Carved Creations purchase through 12/31/14.
Giveaway: Three winners, $250 Carved Creations Gift Card each
1) Check out the jewelry on CCforlife.com and leave a comment answering the following question:
What nickname would you love to make official on a piece of jewelry and which piece from CCforLife.com would you put it on?
2) For a second entry, follow @CarvedCreations on twitter and tweet the following:
I just entered to win a $250 gift card to get my [insert nickname here] customized jewelry from @carvedcreations! http://bit.ly/1wyaQAv via @mommyshorts
That’s it! Three winners will be announced on December 17th.
You can find the full rules here.
Good luck!
UPDATE: The winners are 1) Gregory Tom with the 3 grandpas who want to be called “Gung Gung”, “Papa” and “Pepe”. 2) Jennifer whose mother likes to be called “Gigi” and 3) Cara F whose daughter calls her grandparents “A-Mi” and “A-Pa”. Thanks for playing!
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This post was sponsored by Carved Creations but all thoughts and opinions are my own.
I’d love to put ‘Grammie’ (for my mom) on a page pendant – they’re so pretty!
My toddler calls me “BaBa” and refuses to call me anything else. I’d love to have that put on the locking bangle bracelet to wear next to my watch
I’d love to put ‘Papa’ on a ring for my dad!
My son calls my Grandma “GG” for great grandma.
On a page pendant.
We have a Mema who is actually a great grandma I would love to get this for!
My daughter calls her grandma Mimi, her great grandma Nana and her great great grandma Gigi. She’s so lucky to still have these generations to look up to. This would be great for Christmas!
I’d love to put this on a page pendant, sorry…forgot that 🙂
I would get my kids names, Ellie and Robbie on the LifeNames Pendant for my mom. My kids call her “Gabby”…which is great because under my breath I can call her Crabby Gabby!
When my oldest was born, the first grandchild, my mom declared that she wanted to be called Grams. It lasted right up until Baby started talking, and Grams became Grammy because that’s what Baby decided to call her. Ten years and five grandkids later, we still occasionally find a book or card signed From Grams and the girls always ask who the heck that is. Best laid plans, right? But despite being overruled, I think my mom would love the locking bracelet with Grammy on it!
I would put John Wayne on a lifenames toggle bracelet for my fiance! It is a beautiful bracelet!
I would LOVE to put dadda on a ring for my daughters father!
I’d get “Bebe” on the Lifenames ColorStyle bracelet for my mother, who we call Bebe now that she has her first grandchild 🙂
My daughter calls my mom Sitti (which means “my grandmother” in Arabic). It’s typically a term used by young kids but it’s what we call our grandmothers even as adults. We refer to my MIL as Grammie (she has 8 other grandchildren and it’s what they all call her). It drives me crazy that it’s spelled with an “ie” at the end instead of y (it should be Grammy, right?)
I would get Sitti the LoveLinks Madeline bracelet and Grammie/y the MyLife Bead bracelet.
For family I like the family key necklace, but I think for aunts, uncles, etc I like the sleek band. It’s classic and I think works for everyone.
Which is what I would get for our nickname. My nephew calls my partner Awesome. The first time he met her I forget what she did but she said “I’m awesome!” and he misunderstood this as her name and it’s been that ever since. He will ask if “Aunt Megan and Awesome” are coming to visit. Or if Awesome wants to play cars with him. Things like that and it is hilarious and amazing and has been going on for the past year and a half. I hope it sticks forever!
My daughter used to call me “Nommy” and I think it would be cute on a piece of jewelry to remember those days. it’s kind of bittersweet because we wanted her to learn “mommy” for so long, and now I kind of miss “NOMMY”.
I would like it on a life names toggle!
Would love Nana on a page pendant for my Mom!
Nana on the stacking rings for my mother in law!
My Dad desperately wanted my first son to call him “Grumps.” We went with Gramps – but there’s still a part of me that has a fondness for Grumps…!
If I were choosing for myself, I’d go with my childhood nickname – SpAmy. It’s so much a part of my “story” with my best friend, actually, that not only does she call me SpAmy, but her husband does as well – because he’s never heard her call me anything else. I’m even Aunt SpAmy to both of her children!
For my Dad – a ring; for me – a ring or the toggle bracelet. Love EVERYTHING; it would be so hard to choose!
I would love to put “Gramps” on a men’s ring for my daughter’s great grandpa. He’s turning 80 soon!
I’d love to get my step dad a ring that says “papa’s house” on it. My kids are always asking to go to papa’s house and he loves to rub it in my mom’s face. :’D.
My oldest daughter (now 7) started calling my mother “mom’s mom” and that eventually shortened to mom-mom and they call my stepdad poppa. I’d love to get my mom a stacking ring, and then add one for each of my childrens name.
Since I’m about to give birth on Friday to daughter 3, she’d have a nice little stacking ring set. 🙂
we have a Mema, Lolly, Grammy and a Poppa. 🙂
I love the LifeNames Toggle Bracelet! It would be perfect for my mom, a soon to be grandmother (!), who is continuing our family’s tradition as G.G.
I love the life names toggle bracelet. We dont really have specific nicknames in our house, so id put my kids and my hubs names on it
Mom-Mom would love a LifeLove Bangle Bracelet!
Gaga, for my mom. Best grandma ever!!
I would love to get my Mother-in-Law a set of the stacking rings with “Nonnie” on it. She loves her Grandma nickname!
I would definitely put “papa” on the lifenames sleek band. My girls call their dad papa 🙂
I would get this for my mom. She is Granny Ma to the grandkids and we can never find anything with that name on it so this would be perfect! LifeNames Page Pendant Triad. And her 55th birthday is in January so this would be the perfect gift is I won!
I would get my daughter’s nickname Pookie Lee on the stacking ring set.
My daughter calls my sister Auntie BooBoo. (Her name is Amanda, so not sure how BooBoo came about) Would love to see that on a page pendant necklace!
id love to put my moms nickname fina on a toggle piece to carry her w me always since she is no longer w us physically and another toggle piece with my daughters nickname sofie and her daddy and mine name on it 🙂
We called our daughter “squirrel” in uteri because I always had a hard time focusing on anything while pregnant (squirrel!). I would get that on a stackable ring for sure!
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My mother-in-law was going to be called Grandmother until my daughter named her Nini. It stuck and now all the grandkids call her that. I’d like to make Nini official on the Lifenames bangle bracelet!
My mom is Gee Gee to my girls. It happened so organically. One day my than 9 month old started to squeak and struggle to get out of my arms when she saw my mother walk into the room she started make a (gee) sound and so gee gee it is! I would put it on the toggle bracket. I would also get one for myself and put Mama on it.
Braclet not bracket lol
My kids call my mom Zilla – short for Granzilla (my mom wanted something different for her grandmother name!). My dad started out as Grampers, my kids called him Bampers because they couldn’t say the “gr” sound, and my youngest has just started calling him Bamps.
I’d love to get a page pendant for my mom or a LifeNames Sleek Band for my dad!
Would love a pendant with the nickname Wita. My toddler can’t say abuelita (grandma) yet and calls my mom Wita
I would put Grammy on one of the Bead bracelets for my mom, along with charms with my daughters birthdays!
Page pendant with “Fabulous.” My sister didn’t want to be Aunt Casey for my kids, she just wanted to be called “Fabulous” (no Aunt Fabulous…just Fabulous!) Oh, and her husband is Biggity Unc (Biggity for short). I always tell her to keep my kids close if she’s out with them, because they would have a heck of a time paging “Fabulous and Biggity” to come to the front of the store.
When my 4 year old was 2, she suddenly started calling my mother-in-law “Little Grandma.” For awhile we couldn’t figure out why! Then we realized that we often saw my mother-in-law and her mom (great grandma) together. So naturally, she separated the two by adding “Little” to the Grandma name. It’s awesome and we all love it.
I would put that on the LifeNames ColorStyle bracelet in green!
When my daughter was born, my family instantly started calling her Malisa Jr. because she looked so much like me. Then, it quickly got shortened to “Juney,” “Junebug” or “Juner.” It would be hard to pick which one to put on a piece of jewelry, but I think I’d go with junebug to put on the stacking ring for me!
I’d get “Grammy” on a toggle bracelet
My father-in-law is Pop-Pop and I know he would love a ring with his new name on it!
I would get my mother-in-law a sunflower necklace that says “Mawmaw.” She wanted to be called Grandma but kids have a way of choosing what they’ll call you!
“LilBear” on a stacked ring with my daughter’s birthstone (March). She came into this world fast and furious 10 weeks early and is the strongest yet sweetest lil girl 🙂
My girls call my mom “Ammy” and she would love a necklace with her nickname on it!
We’ve got Gramma and Grampa on one side (Gramma would love the toggle bracelet), and Memere and Poppa on the other side. Memere would also wear that toggle bracelet… Just saying 😉
I love the Toggle Bracelet for my mom. Her nickname to my son is “Gigi”. I also love the PagePendant heart necklace for my grandma and her nickname is “Mas”
I would love to give my mom a bubbe item.
I would love a mommy item as well. I waited my whole life to fall in love and become a wife and mom.
My brother-in-law Duncan is known as Uncle Duncle to our children. It was inevitable.
Grams for my mom on a page pendant would totally rock!
I would get Mia on the lifenames stacking ring set. So beautiful!
I LOVE the toggle bracelet! My family would not be complete without my dog’s name. Her name is Penelope but my son simply calls her “Na”. I love the idea of having an even more personalized piece of jewelry!
Loved the stacking rings! We have a ‘Nonna’, ‘Nanny’ & ‘Coach’. I think the grandma’s would love the rings or pendants!
A LifeNames Pagependant Heart for my mother who the girls call MomMom. They picked it up one day when we explained that Grandma was Mom’s Mom. Now she’s just MomMom and I am Mommy.
I am Grammie, although it sounds more like Meme from a 16 month old. I love it no matter what. I would love it on a Page Pendant, along with the names of those I love.
All the grandkids call my mom NENE( the oldest one use to call her Bill for some reason) and their nine names would look great on the Love Links Sophia bracelet.
Both of my girls call their Grandpa “Bompa”
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My son calls my parents gamma and boss (my dad) so I would like that for them
I would get a toggle bracelet for my mother with her nickname “grams” with my son and nephew’s names!
I’d put Gigi on a necklace for my grandmother.
My mom would adore a “Mamouse” memento. At all of 5′ tall, my 6′ 4″ father’s nickname for her was “Mouse.” And she’s also a huge Disney fan, so “Mamouse” was the obvious grandmother nickname for her. Others may ask us to repeat it or raise an eyebrow, but her four grandchildren have never called her anything else.
My kids call their Grandma “My Dolly” and I would love to get her a LifeNames PagePendant Cross. My only debate is to get it with her 3 sons names (one, my husband, who passed away due to cancer at age 39) or the 7 grandchildren’s names.
I would put Zoe Bean on a stacking ring for my beautiful daughter. Plus that leaves room for more rings if we ever add more little ones to the family.
I like the stacking rings. I think it would be nice to get my mom a band that says “Gumby” because that’s what the grandkids call her and then a gemstone ring for each grandkid.
I could go one of two ways. From day one my father-in-law has called my daughter “Hopie” and so have many kids at school as soon as they meet her. My son sometimes gets called “Indy” like Indiana Jones. The other option I’ve considered having put on jewelry, besides their names of course, is Bunny Baby and Monkey Baby–the zodiac years they were born in! With the birthstone rings would be pretty cool.
I would put Nonna on a family tree pendant for my mom
I would get the toggle bracelet’s with my mom’s name on it.
I would love to wear my nickname Bamma A with =my granddaughters nickname Kenzie around my neck on the puffy heart necklace with the birthstone charms hers is a diamond mine is emerald….we have a special bond!!
My mother insisted on being called Glamma while I was pregnant. I hated it. Absolutely hated it. After my daughter I was born I broke down and told her it had to go so she’s been “Nana” ever since.
We named our son after my dad. Now conversations get a little confusing when both Jacks are in the room. I’d love to get Dad something with Jack 1.0 engraved on it. (Also, the hubs has been asking me for Christmas gifts ideas for weeks. Now I know what to tell him to get me!)
My youngest son calls his grandma damnma and his grandpa crappa because that’s how it came out when he started talking, they find humor in it and he still calls them that. I’d put it on the toggle bracelet for grandma :). Grandpa is not so much into jewelry, he hasn’t worn a wedding band since he welded it to something accidentally at work a long time ago.
I would put Nana and grannie on the stackable rings. The nana one I would keep since she died before my daughter was born and the Grannie one would go to my mom,my daughters only grandma. This jewelry is so cool!
My nieces call my dad “papaw” but I don’t like that. So when my son was born I decided he could call him “papa” since it’s close enough. I would love to get that on a ring for him. He’d be so happy to have a grandpa reminder!
My youngest, now 2, started calling my dad Grump-pa. He is grumpy, and it was funny so it stuck. Still makes me laugh every time he yells “Grump-pa!”
My mom came up with the nickname Monkee for my daughter and I’d love to get that on one of the locking bracelets.
I’d put “Granbe” on a LoveLinks Kirsten bracelet!
Grandma Flo on a pendant, and a love tag too
We like use the official nickname “Noni” for my mother in laws name instead if grandma! She picked it out and the whole family fell in love with it. I’d like it on the stackable rings! She would love it for a gift 😉
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I would get a stacking ring set with Spooky on it! Spooky is my daughter’s nickname that my husband gave her when I was first pregnant because he thought it would be a “cool nickname to go on the back of his nfl football jersey if its a boy.” Four years later, she still gets called Spooky!
My husband needs a “Daddy” band (the Sleek band). He waited so long to be one.
I LIKE THE STACKABLE RINGS! MY MOM IS SIMPLY GRANDMA AND SHE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SOMETHING LIKE THAT!
My daughter calls my mom “Gaga”, so I’d get “Gaga” and Audrey (my daughter’s name) on the bangle bracelet.
I’d put ‘bean’ on a stacking ring for my daughter, whom I’ve always called alina bean.
When I was 18, my brother passed away from a massive heart attack at the age of 37. He was my hero, he was my “bubby”. I would have “bubby” engraved on the color style bracket. The colors remind me of the woods, where he spent all of his free time.
I’d love to have Gralily (Shortened version of Grandma Lily via 2 year old) on a Toggle Bracelet for my Mom. 🙂 She the best.
I would get the page pendant for my mom and put “Booda” on it. She used to call my oldest daughter (now 7 y/o) a little Buddha baby but my daughter started referring to her as Booda (we had to change the spelling of course) and now so does my youngest girl (now 2). In fact, we all do…even extended family members whenever they speak about my mom, lol.
I would get the LifeLove – Sleek band engraved with Mimi Donna. Technically Donna is my aunt but somehow she ended up as my son’s mimi.
“Imo” which means aunt in Korean for my sister in law. She’s the best aunt to my 2 kids and they adore her! (On a bangle bracelet)
We usually call our older girls by their nicknames … Jelly bean and Penelope..would love to get them something special….
My kids are pretty traditional Grandma and Grandpa but one of my dearest friends’ mother is Gringy to her grandchildren. It was what the oldest grandchild was able to say and it stuck. I am sure my friend and her mother would love to have it on a ring.
We call my mom Mimi (though with my almost 2 year old it sounds more like Meanie.)
I’d love to put my kids’ names on stacking rings along with their birthstones. My most unusual kid’s name is Bart, short for Barton. Although my mom calls him Bartamus Mortimor Olsewinsky (Barton Morris Olsen) I think I’d stick with Bart. And I wouldn’t put it on jewelry for him because he doesn’t wear jewelry, but my grandfather somehow got stuck with the name Grandpoo and now to my kids has become Great-Poo. Yep.
Those all are so beautiful. If I were to have the option of picking one, it would for sure be the toggle bracelet, and I would love to have it say “Birdie” – ever since my 3 year old was born I have called her birdie. 🙂 Thanks for the opportunity!!
I would put the names of my children: Izzie, Jack, & Caleb on the toggle bracelet. I’m in love since seeing it on your instagram!
We have a lot of special names in the family. My dad is Poppop and stepmom is Grandma-nana
My husband’s mom is PRINCESS (yes you read that right – she is a blogger and goes by Her Royal Highness the White Trash Princess) I am not even joking at this point!
and his dad’s nickname is Poppy
I’d probably get Princess a piece of jewelry, the Lifename Pendant. Come this Spring she will now have 3 grandchildren and having the birthstones to match of all the grandchildren would be nice.
My mother is inarguably turning into her mother (my grandmother), Betty. So when my son was born we decided as the second Betty, she should be called “Bebe” (though she wanted to be “Glam-ma”). I’d love to give her the Lifenames Bangle bracelet with “Bebe” on it!
Long before we met, husband’s nephew couldn’t pronounce gramma and ended up with a “wawa”. I was introduced to my future mom in law as this is “wawa”. And now, we have a 5 month old and we call her “his wawa”, so does my whole side of the family. She’s both my nephews care during the day and rushes to our house at every moment to see her other grandson. She’d be happiest in a room full of infants and small children, I’ve never met anyone who wants to spend as much time with children as she does. She’s not a gramma she’s a “wawa” and I’d get her mom jewelry that declares her “wawa-ness”
My 9 year old niece calls her grandmother Da. She has since she was able to talk, we have absolutely no idea where it came from and she of course doesn’t remember why. When her oldest grandchild was born, my mother decided she wanted to be called anything but Nana. Not sure who won the that round… they call her Nanny. My dad is Papa, which every kid in the neighborhood calls him now.
I would put “My Sunshine” on the My Universe Pendant.