If you haven’t already heard, in addition to denying a dad entry into the NICU to see his twin premies, Beyonce spent 1.3 million dollars to “redecorate” a wing of the Lenox Hill Hospital maternity ward before she gave birth to a baby that has been officially deemed way-more-precious-than-your-baby, Blue Ivy Carter. (Update: Reports have been denied.)
Instead of whining about the injustices of the 99%, I would like to take advantage of the fact that Beyonce lives in my city and presume that when Blue Ivy leaves the comfort of her 2200 square foot nursery, she will be sharing the same NYC sidewalks as my baby girl.
In other words, if Beyonce’s two days of motherhood are any indication, there are a lot of Mazzy-frequented places that could potentially be next in line for lavish redecoration, aka the “Blue Ivy” treatment.
I would like to submit five for advance consideration.
1) THE TOMPKINS SQUARE PLAYGROUND
The playground is lovely and certainly a huge improvement from the needle-laden-drug-infested park of the early eighties. But often I find myself waiting for an available swing. I would like to propose a VIP swing area, roped off and open only to those who know the secret password. (Password to be decided by me and shared at my discretion.)
In addition, I would like a doorman hired to man the playground’s outer iron gate. Not to deny anyone access, just to open the impossibly heavy door latch. I pinch my finger in it at least once a week.
2) MY PEDIATRICIAN’S OFFICE
We take Mazzy to a small practice which we love but unfortunately, the limited square footage makes it impossible to bring your stroller indoors. All strollers must be parked and locked like bicycles outside. I would like to propose that Beyonce pay for a screened-in sunroom in which to house the strollers. This way I can leave Mazzy’s snack trapper of cheddar bunnies on the seat without worrying a pigeon might poop in it.
3) ALL NYC RESTAURANT BATHROOMS
Most NYC restaurant bathrooms are so small, they feel like they have been designed specifically for the Smurfs. Good luck finding a sink counter, let alone a changing table. In desperate circumstances, I have been forced to change my baby’s diaper on a changing pad placed on the floor. (I’m sure Beyonce just dry heaved at the thought.)
I would like to propose the installation of a fold-down changing station in every restaurant in Manhattan. The changing station would contain a supply of both diapers and wipes, to be restocked by Beyonce’s numerous lackeys. This way in addition to having a clean surface to change my baby, I can ditch the diaper bag and carry a fashionable clutch in it’s place.
4) JFK AIRPORT
The airport is a pain in the ass especially when you are maneuvering through it with a small child. The worst part is when you finally get to your gate, there is no way to quarantine your child. Stand them on the ground and they’ve got unlimited space to run around. It’s added stress at the exact moment you are trying to get into a good headspace for your flight.
I propose redesigning the waiting area to include a large gated playroom. Throw your kid in, close the gate, and then relax until boarding. While you’re at it, it would be nice if all planes were outfitted with a daycare center in the back. Add Elmo’s World played on a loop at baggage claim and travel should be massively improved for parents everywhere.
5) MY OFFICE LACATION ROOM
I no longer use it but man, was that place disgusting. Basically a small tiled bathroom without a toilet next to the elevators. I would like to propose creating the “Beyonce Lactation Room Fund” which requires every corporate office in Manhattan to convert a spacious conference room into a comfortable lounge complete with private pumping stations, an empty fridge, subscriptions to numerous magazines and most importantly, a pump washing attendant, so you can minimize the annoyance and get back to work.
6) MY APARTMENT
I know it’s highly unlikely that Beyonce will be having a playdate with Mazzy any time soon. But this is NYC, it’s a smaller city than it seems, and we must protect Blue Ivy from all possible circumstances, no matter how far-fetched.
I would like to propose the expansion of our apartment to include a playroom, a crafts room and a large walk-in toy closet. Where will we get this sudden access to space? The apartment next door. Yes, someone currently lives there. But I’m sure Beyonce can easily woo them away with promises of Grammy tickets, backstage concert passes and signed memorabilia.
If that doesn’t work, she can offer them a fabulously decorated apartment otherwise known as a wing of the maternity ward at Lenox Hill Hospital.
For 1.3 million dollars, she did get to keep it, no?
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If you had unlimited funds, what places would you lavishly redecorate for your child?
I’d like to propose that Beyonce extends the BIC Treatment to Malaysia.
Install private TVs playing Elmo’s World and Timmy Time (yes, Monkey’s latest obsession) on loop at each table in restaurants. That way, it’d only annoy the adults at the table, not the whole restaurant. And, keep the kid in place.
Install travelators/ moving walkways on sidewalks, so we don’t have to er, walk. And Monkey loves escalators/ travelators. Hours of endless fun.
On a completely different but somewhat related note, if that is true they prevented another parent for seeing their own wife / child(ren) even if for only 20 minutes then I propose the 99% band together and build a private maternity room in Beyonces house for any of her future future deliveries. Either that or do an Occupy Maternity Floor movement and place B and entourage in a little normal room aka the ” Get the f$ck over yourself” room!!
Oh a pump wash attendant. I probably could have held out for another 3-4 months had this been an option. The pump, wash, repeat finally got the best of me!
Also flying with babies is a damn nightmare. Not to mention the disgusting factor of the airport *shudder*! Can whoever is watching the door at the airport baby corral also flip the bird to the nasty businessmen who give you the righteous sniff when they see your small child? I hate those guys!
I want travelators everywhere! They sound awesome!
That’s what the Daily News reported. Apparently, they had security detail that made it difficult for numerous people to get to their newborns. And they cleared out the waiting room as if the people were paparazzi as opposed to friends and relatives of parents who recently gave birth. I would have been absolutely LIVID.
But it’s the Daily News- they’ve been known to sensationalize things.
I should add NYC sidewalk stroller lanes. There is nothing more righteous than a childless Manhattanite who might have gotten ever so slightly swiped by a Bugaboo.
Washing the pump was THE WORST.
I had 2 kids in less than 2 years and found Manhattan to have many roadblocks to my sanity.
City buses: why don’t they have a special storage spot by the door for me to toss my P3 into while I wear my newborn and walk my toddler up the too-high steps to pay no fight with my kids who try to grab my MetroCard so THEY can pay wow this is so inconvenient.
Glass Doors: Remove all revolving doors. Install lightweight glass doors that actually stay open on their own so I can wrestle my stroller into the store/restaurant/apartment building.
Aisles: All aisles in NYC should be wide enough to accommodate a stroller and even wider so the kid in it cannot reach the items on the shelves as we pass by.
Bathrooms: First, make the stalls bigs enough that I can fit in them. Then fix all the doors so they actually lock. Then actually put soap and paper towels in them. That would be a nice start. Then changing tables with anti-microbial everything, and the nice diapers…not cheapo store brands.
I think that’s all for now.
I’m still impressed that your office HAD a lactation room… [Is this where I should be happy that I couldn’t breastfeed?]
The sight of a dozen strollers lined up on a bicycle rack with padlocks sounds kinda funny though 🙂
I can’t think of anything I’d like Beyonce to redecorate, although she could maybe have a go at my basement rec room that I’m slowly converting to a playroom for Vivian. But I’m afraid our taste in decor might differ somewhat – I’m planning to decorate it with framed pieces of Vivian’s artwork, not a 24-carat gold rocking horse.
Anyhoo, that aside, if Beyonce is feeling generous with her gazillions of dollars, then I’d be happy for her to fund Vivian’s membership to the Little Gym. She loves tumbling and seems to have a real proclivity for it, but I’m not keen on my 2YO paying more for her annual gym membership than I do.
When I had my daughter I was so surprised that the majority of public restrooms did not have baby changing stations. Its amazing how creative you can be when it comes to your little ones saftey & health. Maybe wil could start a petition that ALL public restrooms have these 🙂
Can we pretty please convince them to vacation in Central Florida? I have a whole list of things that could use a BIC treatment.
My kids are older, so I think I would just purchase lavish rock star quality tour buses for each of them, with drivers sharing shifts. The buses would be so big that parking would be irrelevant. My kids could get where they need to go, and do their homework, eat, watch TV, practice their instruments, etc. while en route. Suddenly the wait between basketball games won’t be sooooo boring. That is all.
These are fabulous ideas. I would also like her to spruce up the bathrooms at Bleeker playground.
Why are you still pushing this Lie, the hospital reported that there was no $1.3 million given to them. “Get Over Yourself”.
I added an update with a link that says “reports have been denied”. No need to get nasty. I’m making a joke, I’m not a news outlet.
whether or not she spent the money is beside the point, in fact it makes it even worse that parents were unable to see their own babies because B (which nows stands for BITCH)thinks her “water” was made of “Veen water”.
Ilana’s website is tongue in cheek, and she is incredibly smart how she creates her stories – intervening truth with fiction. Those of us who know and love her website totally get it. You are entitled to your opinion, but don’t need to be rude in your presentation of it. She was not dissing the 1.3 million – real or not – but making it into a fun game. Unless you really think she seriously believes Beyonce cares how many NY restaurants have change tables!! And for the record, my comment was NOT related to the 1.3 million I could care less how much is donated to a hospital. It is about the fact that if they went to a PUBLIC hospital to give birth and while there denied the rest of the PUBLIC the right to be around their own newborn children, that is absolutly horrid. And if I had been another parent I would for sure have had the bodyguards and/or hospital up on kidnapping charges because what else is it if your child is kept from you when you pose no safety concern to your own baby and there is no health or lawful reason to keep you separated. IF it is true. But you know what they say about smoke.
Oooh, too late.
Was on my way to warn you to not mess with Jay-Z or Beyonce.
I tweeted this morning poking fun at the “Glory” song lyrics Jay-Z just put out for Blue Ivy.
I was FOOLISH enough to hashtag it.
AND THE Jay Z crew came out.
Telling me to quit talking sh*t grrrl and other niceties.
I had to go and block everyone.
Tread carefully, this power couple packs quite the armada…and that’s not counting if Gwyneth had all gone Z finger in my face.
Yes, and I’m sure we can all believe what the hospital says. The hospital’s word is 100% reliable. The hospital has no reason to do damage of control. LEAVE THE HOSPITAL ALONE!
People (And I’m looking at you, Teddy O.):
It’s a humor website.
Love,
Blue Ivy.
(Yes. Beyonce paid to have her daughter become literate. It’s a miracle.)
Make sure your stroller has spikes that poke out from the wheels. I don’t appreciate pompous child-less folks. Because YES I AM BETTER THAN YOU with my gigantic stroller! 😉
I can’t believe you have to leave your stroller outside! What if the weather is bad? What is a homeless women steals your $300+ stroller and sells it on Craigslist? Guess she needs it more, right?
Hey, we’re not Denmark here. Let us take our strollers inside. Oh, and managers teach people how to fold/unfold strollers. I hate when people come back dragging my stroller and its contents over the dirty floor.
I want changing tables in men’s bathrooms too! My husband *has* offered to change the baby but lo and behold, no luck!
I am astounded by how much little Blue Ivy is polarizing people already! People need to lighten up – and recognize that when you do things like take over a whole wing of a hospital, the plebians are going to have something to say about it. YOU have said it quite nicely, my dear!
Who cares if they did take over a wing and gasp – pay for it? Would it have been better if they had not paid to have their own security keep the paparazzi and other assorted weirdos off the maternity ward? I’d rather be kept away from my baby for a few minutes by a surly but effective security guard than the psycho stalker who is so sure my baby has to be the new Messiah. People just like to whine, they didn’t stand a chance of winning no matter what they did.
Also B & Jigga – I’m pretty sure little B is going to be hitting up Chicago at some point, so if you could make it a little warmer around here, I’d appreciate it. What – you can’t change the weather? What kind of stars are you? Pfft.
Your fetus can read? Just 26 instalments of $500? But wait!
Because a public facility is public for a reaon – I can understand blocking off a theme park etc. as yes, people can be weird when star-struck – but not a necessary public service. Because psycho stalkers exist anyway so the hospitl should ( and to my knowledge does) have measures in place to ensure not just anyone will walk away with a baby – surprisingly even non-celeb parents like their babies safe from wingnuts! Because it is not too hard to keep a newborn secluded to one room so no-one has the opportunity to take a picture unless in that room – it is rather extreme to block off a whole floor. Because babies can room-in with the Mom … in my experience, even after a c-section my little bean was never, ever, not in the same room as me. So again, blocking just the closed door to the bedroom would not be hard to do. And no, I would not at all appreciate having my husband nor I blocked from the legitimate right to be with my baby for any length of time, period. Baby, Mom and Dad get wristbands that match (currently we have just mom and baby getting matching patient bands, just add dad into that easy-peasy), and have dad show the band to access the floor if they leave. Ban extended family and friends if you have to, but not legitimate hospital personnel and not parents!
I would like Beyonce to change all the NYC buses to be like the ones in Vancouver. The floor of these buses are level with the curb so all strollers (and wheelchairs) can just wheel right in and out. It makes all the difference in the world. And doesn’t Beyonce want to make a difference?
The bigger the stroller, the more important the mother— that’s my motto.
Revolving doors are pretty useless with a stroller in tow. Also, Mazzy once ran into one and I just made it in before she was stuck in there forever. Can you imagine trying to get a toddler to understand what to do? And then pushing the door while they fell to the ground and slammed against the glass and then praying their fingers didn’t get caught underneath. TRES NIGHTMARE!
It was not a lactation room. It was a shower next to a sink with an outlet and it was DISGUSTING.
Mazzy’s first year of preschool will cost twice as much as my first year of college.
That is all.
Is throwing your baby on the floor creative? WHOHOOO!!!
And yes, petition please. Let’s also request they put changing tables in the men’s rooms. What is that bit of sexism all about??
Let’s put them on the “Blue Ivy Treatment Tour” with a stop in every state in the country.
As long as I’m not the driver and can get off at any time, sounds wonderful.
You west village people with your fancy park bathrooms…
Well, I’ve gone and done it again with today’s post. Although I think it is strangely on their side. We’ll see if anybody comes for me.
Thanks Blue! Welcome to the world! I hope I don’t have to buy you a gift, I have a mortgage to pay and everything…
Thank you! My post today is about the Babyonce Backlash- it is pretty crazy how PISSED people are about the whole thing. I mean, if everything is true, then they have every right to be pissed. I’M PISSED. Bt some of the stuff is starting to sound a little unbelievable to me.
I would definitely lose my shit had I been denied access to my baby, even if it was only for a few minutes.
Although I understand that they need security and it was not Beyonce herself who was blocking people.
I’m not sure what the answer is- have your child in some place more remote than NYC?
I’m not sure if Beyonce and Jay-Z can change the weather, but I’m pretty sure Blue Ivy can. She’s the second coming— didn’t you hear?
Yes! Why is is that NYC buses are so high up anyway?
Oh, well, if the hospital that outraged a bunch of people over catering to a gazillionaire baby said they didn’t do it…
This is funny regardless.
Its amazing how creative you can be when it comes to your little ones saftey & health.