When I was little, the family across the street from us planted a tree in their front yard. The little girl who lived there was my best friend at the time and I remember standing next to her and her father as they dug the hole and lowered the baby tree into the ground, roots and all. It seemed difficult to believe that one day that tiny twig would match the size of the other trees lining their property. And it seemed even more difficult to imagine that in thirty years time, I would be around to see it.
My friend moved to Texas the following year (totally devastating by the way) but that tree remained. It grew every year just like her father said it would and now I can see it standing tall every time I look out the kitchen window of my mom’s house. A permanent reminder (at least to me) of the family who lived there so many years ago.
Would I remember planting that tree if it wasn’t still there? Probably not. It’s like how your memories become your photos over time. Physical evidence of our time spent on earth.
In honor of Earth Day, Lands’ End asked me to partner with them to celebrate the millionth tree they’ve planted through the National Forest Foundation. Rather than just dress my family in their clothes and call it a day, I decided to up their tree count to one million and ONE.
Only this tree would be planted in our backyard.
Last Saturday (which was the most beautiful day of the year so far), Mazzy, Harlow, Mike and I dug a hole in the ground at our summer house, went to the local nursery, and picked out a tree that will hopefully grow up right alongside my girls.
I didn’t know what tree we would get, but on the way there Mazzy asked if we could get something with pink flowers. I am so used to saying “no” to all her ridiculous pink requests (pink hair, pink food, pink nails, etc.) I was surprised when Mike said, “Sure, if they have a pink flowering tree available at the nursery, we can get it.”
It was that moment I realized this experience was more meaningful than I first imagined. Not only were we planting a tree as a symbolic gesture, we were showing the girls how beautiful and amazing nature can be. It was a reminder to myself as well. I’ve always loved pink flowering trees and it never really occurred to me that I could easily plant one in my own yard.
In fact, a few weeks ago, I posted a beautiful picture on @pinkinnyc of a pink flowering tree in DC. I said it was cherry blossoms but people corrected me in the comments— it was magnolias. I showed the pic to Mazzy (as I do all the our @pinkinnyc pics) and she immediately recognized the name when the man at the nursery listed what would grow well in our area. Deer is a big problem in Eastern Long Island and the man told us deer stay away from Magnolia trees which made Mike very happy too.
“Can we get a Magnolia tree, Mom?” Mazzy pleaded.
There was no reason to tell her no. I was as excited as she was.
We put the tree in the trunk of our car and drove slowly with it sticking out the back, the trunk wide open.
“I’ll watch it, Mom!” Mazzy yelled. She kept calling out if it started to wobble or roll. Mazzy, the protector of all things Magnolia.
When we got back to the house, the girls armed themselves with mini shovels and rakes, wanting to help out as much as they could.
Mike and I lowered the tree into the ground and everyone worked together to pile the soil back on top.
Then we watered the tree and admired our green thumbs.
If you are wondering who took the family shots, it was my dad (aka Poppy) who lives nearby and often visits when we come out for the weekend.
If you are wondering what we are wearing, you can find all items (including Mazzy’s woven sheath, Harlow’s cinched waist, Mike’s twill button down and my red suede loafers) currently available on the Lands’ End site.
I am so grateful to Lands’ End for reminding me of that full grown tree in my neighbor’s yard and inspiring me to recreate that childhood memory with my own family.
One day those tiny twigs will become big thick branches and Magnolia petals will rain down on our yard from above for two to three weeks a year. And in thirty years, Mazzy and Harlow will tell their kids— I remember when we planted that tree. We should plant a tree of our own to grow up with you guys too.
Today, Land’s End is offering a $250 gift card to one lucky reader. To enter, just follow the rules below.
Giveaway Rules
1) You must be a Mommy Shorts subscriber or facebook fan to enter. Then leave a comment below telling me what kind of tree you want to plant with your family.
2) For a second entry, tweet the following and leave a second comment saying you did so:
I entered to win a $250 @landsend gift card via @mommyshorts! http://bit.ly/1PifJ6h #IAmLandsFriendly #earthday
Winner will be announced on Friday May 1st.
Good luck and have a happy Earth Day!
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WINNER UPDATE:
And the winner is… Lisacng@expandng.com who would like to plant a Japanese Maple or Cherry Blossom Tree.
Congrats! Please contact abby@mommyshorts.com to claim your prize.
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This post was sponsored by Lands’ End but all thoughts, opinions, and love of Magnolia trees is my own.
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a pink fringe tree! Mazzy would love it!
Would love to plant a Prunus subhirtella they’re beautiful!
I want to plant a Magnolia tree so badly! We have a ratty half-dead arbor vita in front of the house and it is the bane of my existence. Unfortunately, the Architectural Committee of our HOA isn’t going to support that change. 😛
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Almond Trees 🙂 because wouldn’t that be lovely?
I just moved houses and gave up my beautiful blood orange tree, so I think I would plant it or Persian lime. In my area citrus crops do really well and the blossoms on the Orange trees smell amazing.
Smoke tree…gorge!
I would love to plant an avocado tree… We would eat them every day!
I would plant a Maple tree! My husband and I moved to Alaska 11 years ago from Minnesota and one of the things I miss most are the beautiful red and orange fall colors. There are mostly birch trees around Anchorage so fall consists of yellow, yellow, and more yellow. There are lots of people here from Minnesota (and the lower 48 in general) who would all enjoy seeing a maple tree in all its glory 🙂
When my sister and myself were around Mazzy and Harlow’s ages, my sister wanted to know all about the seeds in her apple. If we planted them, could we grow an apple tree.
So my grandfather took us up to his beautiful terraced veggie and fruit garden and we planted those little seeds. Of course, it wasn’t the right climate for apples, so my grandad went back and planted a mango pip. The tree that grew from the pip he named the Ticky tree after us – Tarryn and Nicky. Every time he wrote to us he’d tell us how the Ticky tree was doing and whenever we visited we’d head up to go inspect our tree.
When I was 10, my grandfather passed away and we had to sell the house. We begged my parents to let us dig up that tree and bring it home to our garden, but it would have died in our cold winters so we had to leave it behind. I wonder if it’s still growing there?
We don’t have a yard, but if we did, I’d plant an orange tree.. We had one in our yard when we owned a home, and I loved making fresh juice and sharing our harvest with neighbors.
We planted last weekend too!! We moved in late Aug last so didn’t have much time to work on the outside of the house, so the past two weekends we planted an herb garden, veggie garden and a new cherry tree. The kids want an Asian pear tree too!!
Cherry Tree!
A fig tree or a sugar maple!!
I’d love to plant an apple tree. We go through so many apples, I’m sure we’d be saving money in the long run.
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Ditto on the apple tree. Reminds me of the apple tree in my grandparents backyard from which my grandmother would make apple pie. 🙂
I would love to plant a Mediterranean fig tree on our yard but in Chicago it’s is impossible to keep it alive during harsh winters. I would love to have many fruit trees than flower trees, if only we were living in a warmer climate.
White birch!!
Now I have to plant a tree with my kids this weekend! My grandparents planted a tree with us when we were kids and I think of it every time we drive by. When I was engaged, I even considered stopping by and asking the new owners for a branch for my huppah, but I was afraid they’d think that was bizzare.
Anyway, I’m going to look into a flowering tree for our yard! My daughter (and i) would love that!
Here in Colorado, aspens are very popular. I’d love to plant an aspen with my boys!
A nice shade tree.
I would love to plant an apple or a plum tree!
We planted a dogwood tree when I was little and would love to do that for my boys since we just put in a new patio last fall and need some landscaping badly.
I subscribed. I would love to add a Cherry Blossom to our yard.
I tweeted! I still want a cherry blossom tree!
Such a great idea! The day we buy a house I’m going to do the same thing with my children!
I would like to plant a dogwood tree. I think they’re so beautiful.
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We had a dogwood tree in the front yard of the house I grew up in that always bloomed on my brother’s birthday, May 1st. My parents have since moved and my brother died 8 years ago at the age of 28. Every May I find myself looking for dogwoods and I’d love to have one in my own yard…
My grand parents had a weeping willow that us grand kids used to play under/in. I would LOVE to give my children a weeping willow!
Orange! And live somewhere that it would thrive.
I want to plant a weeping willow tree, we had one growing up and I loved it!
I agree with Mazzy…. A “pink tree” would be beautiful. 🙂