I QUIT MY JOB. I know— it's big news. If you didn't know, I was working as a creative director in a small advertising agency run by two women I've worked with for about fifteen years.
I loved that job.
Technically, it was freelance but in the last year, it came to resemble more of a full-time gig.
Working full-time was not the problem. I have always wanted to work full-time— having kids didn't change that. But I was also working on Mommy Shorts at night and it was starting to feel like TWO full-time jobs.
With some encouragement from my husband (from the bottom of my heart, Mike, I thank you) and a pep talk from my bosses who very kindly said, "You can always come back", I decided to see what would happen if I made Mommy Shorts my one and only full-time gig. (Well, in addition to the whole MOM THING).
This is a huge leap for me but so far, it's been pretty amazing.
FUCKING SCARY. But also amazing.
Up until a few months ago, I had not spent one dime on my blog. My only investment was time. But my limited design skills can only take me so far and (for various reasons, all of which will be really boring if I get into them), I have now invested in getting a bit of a site overhaul.
Originally, I was thinking I would switch blog platforms but keep the look of my site primarily the same (maybe add a photo of Harlow in the header so she doesn't hate me later), but the deeper I get into the process, the more I realize Mommy Shorts is going to look pretty different when everything is complete.
Honestly, I'm not sure if that's the right decision but I do think after three years, it's time to evolve. Besides a facelift, my dream is that the new design makes old and new content more accessible and easier to find. At the moment, I feel like my posts are dead in the water a few days after they go live.
But if you hate change, DON'T WORRY. The new design is not going to be ready for a few months, so you can take your time mourning Mommy Shorts 1.0 and prepare yourself for (hopefully!) something better.
Since I find working at home nearly IMPOSSIBLE, you'll be happy to hear my second piece of big news.
I got myself an office!
A MOFFICE, if you will (credit for the Moffice moniker goes to Kerri from HouseTalkN).
And— GET THIS— an employee!
Well, half an office and half an employee.
I teamed up with my good friend Seri from Little Miss Party (the party planner who designed several events for me this year, including Harlow's pancake and pajama party, Thanksgivukah and Peeps Chic) and we decided if we split a space and an assistant, we could make it more financially feasible for both of us.
Together we hired Ali, a recent NYU grad who had already been working for Seri part-time while she was still in school.
That's Ali on the left and Seri on the right. If you've won a recent giveaway, you probably got an email from Ali and thought— who the hell are you?
Now you know.
And don't worry, I mugged Seri with a Mommy Shorts mug when she wasn't looking.
The office is the walk-in closet I've always dreamed of (it looks about ten times larger in the wide-angle photo below than it does in real life) and with the exception of Hansel (our name for the faux taxidermy lying on the table in the back) the furniture was all given to us for free from a business across the hall that happened to go under shortly after we moved in.
Yes, I appreciate both the luck and the somewhat discouraging sequence of events.
I also need to give a shout-out to Keurig who sent me a free coffee machine. That and my computer is really all I need.
It's small beginnings around here but to me, it feels like a pretty huge start to 2014.
I sincerely hope you are all willing to come along for the ride.
Just promise me if this time next year, I'm back at my old job, you'll smile and say…
"I'm happy you gave it a shot."
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You know what would really be a good start to 2014? Winning BEST BLOG and BEST INSTAGRAM in Parents Magazine's Social Media Awards. I'm in second place in both categories (but closing in on instagram!) and your vote would mean the world to me. You can vote every day in both categories until the winners are announced on January 13th. THANK YOU!!!
Thank you for posting your article on your blog it gives me encouragement as a self employed person myself and your office is adorable; lots of light and perfect size so you can see everything. Congratulations!
So cool! And inspiring! And I’m sure very very scary.
I am a big Mommy Shorts fan and can’t wait to follow all of the 2014 excitement. Congrats!
You always need to jump when your heart says to. best wishes and I am sure you will stay my favorite blog ever!
Congrats on taking the leap! I love hearing stories of people who quit their mainstream jobs to start something on their own – so empowering! I personally would love to start my own thing, but terrified, so for now I relish news of those like you! Cheers!
Wow, congratulation, that took a lot of courage and faith. Good luck and here to a very long and prosperous blog.
I’m so excited and happy for you! I cannot wait to see the new design.
Good luck! It seems like it will be so nice to focus on one work thing. I love MommyShorts!
Oh my goodness I am so excited for you! This is my dream and hopefully comes sooner rather than later. I totally think this is the next step for Mommy Shorts and think you made the right decision! Congrats!!
Me neither!
You are REALLY close in the IG category! Good luck! Keep reminding me to vote :). Congrats on taking this leap and it’s awesome that Mike is on board. I look forward to joining you on this amazing ride.
Congrats! I’m sure it wasn’t an easy decision to make. I think it’s great to branch out and do new things. And if all else fails (which I doubt) then it’s great that you can always go back to your job. And that wouldn’t mean it was a failure, just some things aren’t meant to be at certain times. But I have the feeling that you’re gunna be pretty successful 🙂 I do have a question for you though if you don’t mind me asking…how are you planning to replace your income? I’m not criticizing, just curious 🙂 because I am new to the blogging world and would love some ideas myself of how to make money through it lol. 🙂
Congrats! This is great news! Looking forward reading all about your journey!
I am so proud to know you, Ilana. Big things are going to happen because you are GOOD at this. Really good. I always feel like with our combined power we could rule the world, or at least make enough to cover our bills. You’re going to be great.
Thrilled to hear your big news. What a huge step! Wishing you all the best! The first thing you did right was hire a person named Ali. Alis are awesome.
Congrats! I’m along for the ride no matter how the view looks. I’m excited for you!!
Ohhhhh soooo exciting!!!! I can’t wait to see the new design and your office is adorable. And I’m sure Seri will bring in lots of yummy snacks so you’ll be all set.
That is great news! I wish you the best of luck! Can’t wait to read more.
This is absolutely great news, I am so happy to see where this blog will go! Just to let you know, you are my absolute favorite blog! What a happy 2014 🙂
Congratulations, Ilana. I think it is amazing that you are able to take a chance and do something you love, and I am excited for the coming changes to Mommy Shorts. I love all your posts, and sometimes I like to reread them but they are so hard to find! So I am looking forward to the updates that will enable me to more easily find all your wonderful writings.
You are amazing, and all your fans love you. <3
Congrats and best wishes! Your blog quickly became one of my favs.
Congratulations Ilana and best of luck! I dream of getting a little office space to share with a real live grown up human. It is lonely working by myself. I can’t wait to hear how it goes and I am now going to officially start looking for an office mate. Happy New Year!
Ilana!! This blog is AWESOME!! I LOVE that you mugged me while I wasn’t looking…HA!!! Dying. SO excited to be on this journey with you. YAY!! xoxo
Congrats! Can’t wait to see what happens when you devote your somewhat full attention to Mommy Shorts.
So awesome! Congratulations and good luck! 🙂
YAY! Congrats!!! You will do great!!!
Good for you! 🙂 Congratulations!
Very excited for you! What a big step for the new year 🙂 It’ll work out, and on the itty bitty chance it doesn’t and you’re back at your old job, guess what, at least you DID IT. Made that leap. Be proud!
And EXCITED about the new layout 🙂
Go girl.
So excited for you.
(and for all your fans. including me.)
XO
Congrats! All the best! Can’t wait to see what is in store for you!
Best of luck! You’ll do great…and I’ll still follow your blog no matter where you work!
Congrats!!!! I may have grown sons, 20 and 18, but I read you daily and get so many laughs. Just yesterday, my husband and I were talking about Thanksgivukah and and I said, “I have a friend in NY…” and then I stopped and realized that although you don’t know me from Adam, I still consider you my friend. I guess that’s what happens when you are in on the day to day goings on of a family. Even though I corrected myself and told him I just read your blog, I’d consider it an honor to call you friend.
WOOOOO! Congratulations to you!!!! This post made me so happy, I am so thrilled for you and all of your success (past, present and future) and the cool new things going on, like having an office, a coffee maker and an assistant! I’m also excited about seeing the new design of the blog – I’m sure it will be super cool. *happy dance*
Remember when you went away on those long work things and missed home … now you can go away on shorter things, you know, like blog conferences and come home rejuvenated and still tell Mike it was a grueling work thing.
Thrilled for you and your makeover.
Nicole xxx
Oh hell yeah and a high five! Way to make the leap! Congratulations!
Very exciting! Good luck and what a nice small relief to know you can go back to the old job….just in case. But I’m sure you’ll be really successful!
So this means you won’t be coming back to Argentina? Bummer! But I’m so happy for you and I just know you won’t regret this decision. Congrats!
Congratulations a and best of luck with the venture!
congratulations! What a wonderful way to start the new year!
Congratulations and good luck! It takes a good amount of courage to strike out on your own.
I am so excited for you! You are going to do big things in the moffice! GO GET ‘EM!
Mazel Tov! To BIG things in 2014!!!
Congrats! You have to give it a shot. I remember my first impression of you at blogher san diego, gracious and classy. You stepped out of your small group of people to introduce yourself when i came down the hall way. Such a class act. I remembee that.
CONGRATS. You will (continue to) rock.
Hussein
I remember you mentioning the idea of hiring someone to help, when we spoke at the ‘Pee Alone’ signing in Chicago, but had no clue you had another full-time job. Ho-lee! You are due a break and a huge round of applause for going for it. You’ll make a success of it for sure!
I feel like I know you and have been following you since before my little guy was born. Your posts have helped me laugh through some tough, doubting myself moments. So it doesn’t even feel weird to me that I actually had some tears of happiness well up for you. Love that you are giving it a shot!!
Woo Hoo! Congrats!!!
Congratulations on the new office and the leap of faith! I’m new-ish to your blog and I love it! A format to make it easier to find older posts sounds great…..I’ll have more good laughs at the end of my day to look forward to!
And your girls are adorable and beautiful!
AND you’re now in FIRST PLACE for best Instagram!!
So awesome, good for you!!
Well done, I only wish I’d been as brave about my business many years ago! Gx
Well, there are lots of different ways you can make money— I tend to do it mainly through sponsored content. I’m hoping with the blog platform move that I’ll be able to make more money with my ad network. I just signed with Glam and will implement their ads this month. I’ve now got enough traffic that it should generate somewhat meaningful money. I’ve also been taking on consulting for various brands. We shall see!
Congratulations! And since you’re a fan of Dark Magic K-cups (like I am), I must tell you about the awesome value that is Eight O-Clock Coffee Dark Italian Roast K-cups. Bonus is that the packaging for these comes in the prettiest purpley blue color. 🙂
But congrats again! I follow you everywhere, social-media-wise!
Congrats on the big move! That’s exciting!!
No better feeling than being able to transform your hobby into your passion – into your job! You have worked so hard, are so imaginative and have such a great balance of “real” vs “fun” mixed with interesting, factual, and creativity- you deserve this!!
I will work for free for you! just for the opportunity and fun of participating in something mommyshorts related!!!!! :D. Best of lucks Ilana! Is better give it a shot than asking, what if? For real if you need any help let me know, my husband is a super badass Web Master and I’m a designer 😀
You just grabbed 2014 by the balls and made it your bitch.
CONGRATS!!!!!!!
Congratulations! You know you’ve arrived when you don’t have to get dressed to go to work.
xo,
meredith
I stumbled on MommyShorts and loved the post about being a working mom and all the guilt that comes with it. I have been hooked ever since!
Congratulations on the big leap, I am sure it will be a success. You have a great sense of humour and thru your posts, you make it seem like we really know you and your family! One thing I hope will not happen is your blog to become a huge medium for sponsors. I get it that you need to have some sort of income, but what I love about Mommyshorts is the posts about just living life with a husband and 2 girls in a city, and the emotions that come with it.
Glad you found me and thanks for the good wishes! I don’t want my blog to be dominated by sponsors either. What I’ve found, and I’ve been doing things like this for while without anyone complaining- is that if I write five posts a week, it’s perfectly reasonable for one of those posts to be sponsored. My goal is to continue doing that along with one larger sponsored program a month— like a photo contest. I try to come up with a lot of my sponsored initiatives myself so they feel really organic to my blog. Since my background is in advertising, I actually enjoy doing sponsored stuff and have been weaving it in since I started. We’ll see if it all works out!
How amazingly scary yet freakin’ awesome!?! I think you’re site is great & extremely inspirational – looking forward to the new and improved v2.0!! 🙂
Congratulations on going balls to the wall – I can’t imagine how excited you must be.
That’s exciting news! Good for you. I’m looking forward to v2.0 like most!
Love the office. Kinda a work friendly place but someplace you can still where shorts or jeans to on Casual Friday.
Love the site. I’m a stay at home Dad, but like it here just the same. Question… What Blog platform do you use? I was considering starting a blog having to do with the whacky world of aging parents, and your site seems to have a lot of great features and a nice layout.
Hi Mommyshorts, I am a recent HUGE FAN and am just starting to blog myself. I’m looking for advice from you. Do you have a blog post, kinda like a “how-to” or just the ins and outs on how to get started or any general advice? Thanks in advance…
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