Mazzy has been sick for over a week now. It started escalating when we were potty training last weekend and she's been stuck at home ever since. I think it might be part of her master plan to continue wearing diapers up until college.
Well played, dear daughter, well played.
It sucks when your kid is sick for many reasons. Yes, your child is miserable, but that misery would be somewhat bearable if she didn't insist on bringing you right down with her.
Here are the top ten things that suck about your kid being sick, besides your kid being sick…
1. If you go to the pediatrician too early, you'll feel foolish when the doctor shrugs, diagnoses a common cold and then scurries you out of their office with a prescription for rest and chicken soup, all while motioning to ACTUAL sick children in their waiting room.
2. If you go to the pediatrician too late, you'll feel like an awful mother for letting your child's common cold turn into full-blown bronchitis or a raging double ear infection under your neglectful watch. You'll try to make a joke about how it's hard to know when you will be laughed out of her office or not, but the doctor will be too busy prescribing numerous medications to hear you.
3. Along with medicine, fluids and something called "vapor bath", you will be told to give your child lots of TLC. FYI- there is a fine line between tender loving care and cowtowing to a miniature tyrant demanding an endless supply of popsicles, pillow fluffing and Team Umizoomi.
4. The longer the illness goes on, the more entitled your tyrant becomes, until you are unsure you will ever be able to return to normal parent-child dynamics without an intervention from the SUPER NANNY. So try to temper your generosity on Day One, because if you hit Day Ten, you are never getting your iPad back.
5. Your coughing, sneezing, weezing child will want nothing more than to sleep in your bed, with their snotty nose practically resting on your own. Unfortunately, proximity is not taken into account when she wakes up in the middle of the night screaming, "I NEED A TISSUE!!!!"
6. Your favorite catchphrase will become "Don't cough on the baby." Even a child that knows how to cover their mouth, only does it about half the time. And the half the time they do it, they remember mid-cough and cover only a small fraction of their mouth.
7. After finally getting your 3yo to ingest 4ml of pink amoxicillin (I recommend at least two people and duct tape to do the job), you will want to ingest every ounce of alcohol in your house. While locked in the bathroom. Crying.
8. You will have to convince your child that the NEBULIZER, a large machine with various tubing that you plug into a wall, does not hurt whatsoever. Which, by the way, she will be way less inclined to believe, if you just told her amoxicillin tastes like bubble gum.
9. Whatever previously made you happy (playing an instrument, Words With Friends on the toilet, etc.) will dissipate as your life begins to revolve around the most satisfying of parenting activities— SNOT SUCKING. You and your spouse will take turns trying to convince your child to partake in this most delightful exercise. She won't let you do it nearly as often as you would like, but when she does, you will be so proud of the amount of snot you pull from your child's nose, you'll briefly consider taking a photo and posting it on Facebook for all to see.
10. Just as your child starts to get better, everyone else in your house will start to get sick. First your other child(ren), then your spouse, perhaps a pet, with you bringing up the rear.* If all goes as God intended, mom will recover just in time for the cycle to repeat itself.
* Let me know if you can hear my hacking cough through your computer.
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Your hacking cough is being drowned out by mine. Sorry, Ilana. Hope you all get better soon! I’m so with you on this… My downer of the day: I feel so terrible that I just want to curl up into a big germy ball and sneeze my last sneeze, but my recently recovered 4 year old “needs to go to the playground”. Right now. It appears to be a matter of life and death. Sigh.
Yeah, Mazzy is still sick so I don’t have to take her to the playground yet. But that will no doubt be what comes next. Taking care of a healthy child while you are sick is perhaps the worst part of the cycle.
Oh can I relate to this. Was home all week last week w/my sick child. Who I was certain would return to school today. Silly me. We’re off to the doctor today instead, probably for a healthy dose of #2. Hope you all feel better soon!
Is it sad that I was somewhat relieved we all got sick within 2 days of one another? I just wanted to get it over with all at once. Here’s hoping you ALL feel better soon.
It is a big con that not one parenting book in the world tells you that once you are a mother you never ever get a sick day again (which makes me wish I had been less diligent when I worked to maximise on being able to actually stay in bed and recover). I hope you feel better soon. I can sympathy hear your cough over the cacophany of two kids hacking even here in London because other than providing amusing blog fodder for us Mommy Shorts fans there is not one perk to being a sick parent.
Whoa, I’m sitting here with the flu, PRAYING that I’m the only one to get it! This article comically reminds me why!
I just squirted saline spray up her nose, helped her learn to blow.
Two things…. Some pharmacies will flavor your childs medicine. The BEST $2.99 I ever spent in my life. Also, you can get either pacifier attachments for the nebulizer or fish, or bear shaped masks.
Lil’ Bit and I were both sick together with the flu over the Christmas break. Which as far as being sick goes, wasn’t too bad. Mainly because my husband took care of both of us. Score!
This bug seems to have crossed the Atlantic as we are going through this as well. Although, of course, my husbands cough and sore throat is WAY worse than mine…
Poor family!! Hope you all recover soon! You are right that mom is always last to catch the bug. LOL on the snot sucker because my husband LOVES to do that!
I’ve been coughing on and off for three weeks now. I think it’s been two different colds, back-to-back. And, I’m almost 36 weeks pregnant, so half the time I cough, I pee my pants. Kiddos were sick over the holidays but have been mostly better since – a bit of a residual cough for them but it’s definitely hit me harder (stupid preggo immune system). Here’s to hot tea and naps!
If I have to waste one more breath reminding my 8yo that coughing in the general vicinity of her bent elbow while playing with the baby gets more germs on the baby than her elbow, I’m gonna… Well, do nothing probably, because I feel like I might be coming down with something myself.
JUST went through this with my kids. First my daughter, then me then my son. All starting with Pink Eye, then a NASTY cold one after another. We are now just finally seeing the end and getting over this after 2 mths. ARGH! I read somewhere that its taking MUCH longer for people to get over being sick, up to 3 mths. 🙁 I hope you all get better soon and quick!
I’m gonna throw one more thing in: Nobody gets to sleep, except for the husband who temporarily moves downstairs to the couch. Baby coughs himself awake including the toddler and me, and just when the coughing spell is over, you can be sure you or the toddler starts coughing.
Don’t make the mistake of sending your still sick kid to school. They sent mine back!!!
FYI- Getting sick for blog fodder is TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT. I have no voice and had to give a presentation via a conference call this morning. UGLY.
Hmmm… that’s a good idea. I keep trying to teach her because in my mind it will solve everything. She can’t spit toothpaste out in the sink yet either. AND I THOUGHT SHE WAS GOING TO HARVARD!
I think this stuff is flavored. It’s bright pink! But I’m not going to taste it to find out…
Lucky you. Mike is sick in the trenches with the rest of us.
I taught Mazzy to cough into a cupped hand but someone at school seems to have taught her to cough into a fist. Way less accurate.
We have all had a lingering cough/cold for awhile too and now Mazzy’s turned into bronchitis and seems to have taken us all one step closer to death. I wonder why everyone is recovering so slow? I didn’t realize it wa s a nationwide epidemic!
Snot sucking is so addictive and so gross. Thank you for understanding. Also, fun fact: did you know you’re supposed to empty out humidifiers EVERY DAY? And then wash them with vinegar EVERY WEEK? Yeah, me neither.
What??!! Shizzle. I better get on that. We had an epic months long battle a couple of years ago, but with the epidemic I feel like I’m waiting for a snot tsunami. Of course dh just left on a week long business trip and I’m starting to feel like poo. Guess the two little ones are going to get a lot of screen time…
This is fantastic. I just posted about the dreaded baby cold. My 11 month old had a “flu like” virus (but not the flu, mind you) and I thought I was losing my mind. I have yet to find that magical time where you can go the pediatrician at the exact onset of the ear infection/bronchitis/whatever so you only have to pay a copay ONCE! I always end up getting the “it’s a virus” diagnosis at least twice before they finally find that pesky ear infection!
Please tell me you have a Nose Frida. Greatest and most satisfying snot sucker on the market!
Oh my son was sick all weekend and high fevers don’t make it any easier.
I hate that sickness also disrupts bed routines, because my son usually wakes up a lot a night when he is sick and takes a long time for him to go back to sleep all night even after he has recover, now he is still out of school for the day but I hope tomorrow he feels better to go, snotty and all.
I hope you at least have a Nose Frida or Baby Comfy Nose (I like this one the best). It literally has saved what little of my sanity I have left with a sick 6mo and 4yr old. I think I sucked about a gallon of snot from the baby’s nose last night alone. You must get one if you don’t already have one.
How timely is this post, today I cleaned up chicken noodle soup off my couch, which my daughter threw up…then she cried coz she threw up and then threw up some more because she was crying. O_o
That damnable nebulizer. My kids loathed it. Never trusted it, and we had to use the amoxicillin duct tape to hold them down during the breathing treatments. Sorry you’re having such a rough run, babe.
Ilana, from having lots of experience in this brand of fun (both with my two asthmatic kids and working on a pediatric pulmonary unit), I can tell you that NO ONE has fun sucking the snot out of a kid, but a little saline squirted in the nose will help thin the mucus while simultaneously making you feel like you are actually making progress!! Also, buckling a little one in their highchair for nebulizer treatments while providing a “special-treat TV show” will help distract -but not cure- the craziness. And once they are locked down for the 20 minute treatment, you can sneak off to the bathroom for that well-deserved drink of Chardonnay!
Ah yes, the nebulizer. I first had to use it on my asthmatic daughter when she was around a year old. The only way I could get her to take it was to hold her on my lap, put on Baby Einstein, and let her have her pacifier while I held the mask as close to her face as I could without actually touching her. At one of our numerous ER visits when she was 15 months old, the ER doc actually lectured me for not taking the pacifier away from her. Sure, I’ll take it away, and then she can cry about taking a nebtreatment, making the asthma attack even worse. Great tip, Doc!
This is SO true. The Mr sleeps right through all of the coughing no matter where he is. Its like he goes deaf when he sleeps. He also hasnt gotten sick at all. >:/
The hubby, my 7 yo son and I had strep and ear infections two weeks ago. I took my 2 yo daughter to the dr then and she said Maddy just had a cold. A week later Maddy was still screaming all night long so back to the dr we go; she had a double ear infection! Luckily she loves medicine so I don’t have to fight with her but she is now a spoiled mess. I just want my iPad back! Btw when my son was 3 he would scream if given liquid medication and when he did finally take it he promptly threw up everywhere. Ever since he has taken capsules or tablets and never has a problem swallowing them.
Hope that everyone is on the mend (and stays that way)…This has been a terrible season for us, and holy hell, there are five of us, so at this point I’m lucky if we all are over the first thing before someone brings home the next thing.
Godspeed & hang in there!
We switch the water daily but I did not know about the vinegar thing. Been using that humidifier for three years now. I really am a terrible parent.
Yep- all over the Nose Frida. It’s the only thing that works!
We have a nose frida and the baby comfy nose. I find the nose frida works better. I don’t know if it’s the angle or what.
I WISH my kids would let me suck their snot. It is SOOOO wonderfully satisfying! But they scream bloody murder and fight me to the death…I actually sat on top of my 3-1/2 year old boy, pinning his arms with my knees, to try the “snorfer” on him, but he is so strong and wiggly it is unbelievable. And so traumatic that my 2 year old daughter started crying just watching it happen.
Also, my darling angels have been sick all week, and now that they’re on the mend (i.e. back to their standard crazy energy levels), I am getting sick. Worst. Timing. EVER.
So what kind of snot sucker do you have? Do you have the bulb one or do you have the actual snot sucker- the one made in Sweden I think? The snot sucker works really really good actually- not that I know from experience or anything.. or yea I do 🙂
They have nebulizer masks that are pacifiers now, but I’m not sure if they’re available to the general public yet. Ask your pulmonologist!
Stumbled on this after reading your post about sick kids this week.
Number 9 made me gag a little 😀
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