As most of you know, Mariah Carey had her twins last week— Moroccan and Monroe. Roc and Roe, for short. Those are their official nicknames— I did not make them up. Separately, they are cute. Together they sound like a fast food sushi place in a mall food court.
Editor's Note: My husband pointed out that those are also the acronyms for "Return On Capital" and "Return On Equity". Then my brain flashed "finance! math!" before it exploded.
Originally, I was going to write a post entitled "Are You Qualified To Be Mariah Carey's Nanny?" In it, I would detail the various demands of her potential caregiver the way one might have written one of her infamous concert tour riders.
However, after doing a bit of research (yes, I take my celebrity snark seriously), I discovered that Mrs. Carey does not intend to hire a nanny.
(!!!!!!!)
After an hour of semi-consciousness and another fifteen minutes to pick myself up off the floor, I gave this new information some thought.
As someone who claims to be "eternally 12", I think Mariah might not fully grasp all that motherhood entails. Perhaps she has been so sheltered by handlers and sychophants, that the concept of a dirty diaper or a middle of the night feeding has totally escaped her.
So. I decided to do Mariah a service. I wrote a letter — Mamma to Mamma— in the hopes of helping the poor thing out.
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Dear Mariah,
Congratulations on Roc & Roe! You must be excited for that magical moment when you tell your children the origin of their names. "Monroe? You were named after a drug addicted suicidal Hollywood star who slept with the President. Morroccan? We love countries in adjective form." Such special times await you.
I hear you spent $100,000 on your nursery (pictured below). Hats off to you. Does it matter that you could have diapered the entire newborn population of five to six third world nations for that amount of money? Not really. More important that you institute (and I quote) "a delicate balance between raising them around glitz and glamour and keeping them grounded". GOOD START!
Also, I applaud how your penchant for all things white (kittens, roses, etc) has extended to your nursery. In order to avoid unsightly poop and puke stains (spit-up does not come out— FYI), I advise building a wing where you can duplicate the nursery at least thirty times. That way, when it gets a little dingy or an accident occurs, you can just transfer the twins to the identical nursery without having to worry about cleaning up the one before it.
However— I would ditch the $30,000 cinderella crib (pictured right). I know you probably have little sheet changing experience, but changing sheets is a pain in the ass. Changing crib sheets is even harder. Changing crib sheets within an enclosed circular pumpkin? Impossible.
Lastly, I know that you like to make people wait. It's your THING. I get it— you're fabulous. But your twins are new to this world and might not appreciate your level of stardom. Shocking, I know. My guess is that they won't wait for you in the way you have become accustomed. There might even be *GASP* crying involved.
I suggest adorning their nursery with full-on Mariah memorabilia. Framed magazine covers, shelves for your various awards, platinum records, etc. Maybe project "Glitter" on the ceiling so they can watch it as they fall asleep. The more the twins are surrounded by your stardom, the sooner they will understand that waiting hours for you to feed, change and/or bathe them is a privilege, not a curse.
In conclusion, I think you will make an excellent mother. And if you really feel strongly about not hiring a nanny, I support you. I'm sure your diaper changer, banana masher, stroller handler, bedtime story reader, wet nurse, onesie dry cleaner, bath time intermediary, burp cloth embroiderer, infant masseuse, live-in pediatrician, newborn hairdresser, child development guru, pacifier finder, infant stylist, and some guy named Nick Cannon all feel equally confident.
Best of luck!
—Mommy Shorts
Picture of Mariah found on Baby Lifestyles, pictures of nursery found on Necole Bitchie
Oh Snap! Girl you are on fire. Those are terrible names, but not as bad as a name idea that a certain family relation came up with for their soon to be born girl.
Tyranny.
They wanted to name their baby girl Tyranny.
I said “Why don’t you name her Tyranny Oppressive Starvation Deathboat while you’re at it”
Because I’m subtle like that. Also? I don’t want to be related to Tyranny.
True story.
That is a great momma to momma letter. If she writes back and you two get all chummy please tell her that I’m still pissed about my cat and of yeah you can tell her I think that crib is ridonkulous!
This was hilarious! I learned so much i didn’t know. I feel like I just read People magazine or something . Loved it!
As always, exceptional. I love this. I hope Mimi writes you back, and please tell her my idea about naming her daughter MiniMimi. I think I had the better creative naming genes there. Obvs.
Wow. I have a suggestion. How bout remove the “y” for a name that connotes way more positive associations— Tranny!
I can’t believe Tommy Mottola stole your cat for realz. I bet that was a sweet commission too.
MiniMimi would have been AWESOME. Such a missed opportunity there.
I really don’t believe she will make it with no nanny. That nursery is ridiculous.
Love this! Is that a *gasp* giraffe I spy in the corner? Great way to freak a baby out.
Once she discovers she can’t tell back to front on a diaper after a blowout, this will happen – her publicist will announce that Mariah will be doing a reality show called ‘A Nanny for Mariah’, where wannabe nannies beat each other up to win the coveted position of nanny to Roc and Roe.
I can’t wait.
I am going to assume that is a real giraffe. So, so jealous.
I have a physical reaction to all things Mariah Carey. The sight of her gives me hives. If I hear her voice – dry heaves. I have never hated anyone I’ve never met with such vigor. The fact that she is now a mother is too much to bear. For the rest of my life I will be forced to see magazine covers and tabloids full of pictures and tragic stories about Roc and Roe, which are names too awful to even give twin cats.
It’s fitting that I should read this post directly after reading Theta Mom’s on blog envy. Because I has it right now. This is some stellar, creative, hilarious writing right here.
P.S. I can’t get over that nursery. It’s gorgeous. So why do I feel a sense of gleeful giddiness at the thought of it covered in poop and spit up?
good stuff
Oh my that is hilarious reading! (at least to me) I cannot fathom babies in that nursery.
Oh goodness. Mariah is in for the reality check of a lifetime. Imagine how late she is going to be now that she has two babies to deal with? 90 minutes late for a broken nail? Wait until it’s the famous up-the-back crap. That will be at least a 4 hour delay.
OMG finding this quote: “a delicate balance between raising them around glitz and glamour and keeping them grounded” around the nursery? Pure hilarity.
I’m sorry, I would comment but I’m too distracted by that almost-to-scale giraffe. WTH? What are they doing to do with that..ride it?
Oh dahling you were really in fine form with this one. Truly outstanding.
I can never quite compute how celebrities get by without a nanny, but get back to their pre-baby bodies with 90 minute daily workouts. Either they special order babies who sleep all night and take mammoth 3 hour naps, or they’re lying!
She is nuts. I am so glad you told her!
Roc and Roe sound like Rock n Roll 🙂 If you say them with a Queens accent at least hehehe.
Ummm, if I had nanny money I’d be all over having one. And the crib? If her kids are anything like mine, they’ll SCREAM the moment you put them in one, no matter that you spent a gazillion dollars on it.
And I know that she picked Monroe as in Marilyn, but am I the only one who thinks of Monroe from Too Close For Comfort??
This is too funny! I dont know who does a nursery in white! And poor kids with those names, good thing they will probably never go to real school! And no nanny .. I give in 2 weeks, okay maybe one month … she is probably already interviewing!
Dear me. Good one, the girl had it coming. But where are all the butterflies? Is she over them, maybe she is starting to feel 13?!
Well we can’t be too surprised that she’d spend money on all of this crap. She was the one who said, “Whenever I watch TV and see those poor starving kids all over the world, I can’t help but cry. I mean I’d love to be skinny like that but not with all those flies and death and stuff.” — Mariah Carey. She’s not very smart anyway 🙂
Okay, let’s get honest, Mariah. If someone like me has 2 Nannies, you have 5. Or 10. But you call them “babysitters, baby nurses, housekeepers, childminders” and whatever else you can think of because people make assumptions about those with a Nanny. But come on. Just stop lying. Unless that crib also minds your children. Laughing at this whole thing. What she really should have hired was a naming coach. Roc and Roe. Like rock and roll with a speech impediment…
That is quite a room. I would have loved help when JDaniel wasn’t interested in sleep.
She really spend $100,000 on the nursery? How did I miss this? She will hire a nanny by the end of the week….
Some guy named Nick Cannon indeed. I can’t figure out how he got so cray cray himself.
I just love watching the crazy trainwreck celeb parents! That nursery is nuts.
I’m going to do something a little spammy here, but only b/c I think you’ll actually like this post about my celeb advice on naming their babies. And you’ll forgive me b/c you loves me, right? 😉 http://blogs.babble.com/famecrawler/2011/05/10/an-open-letter-to-celeb-moms-to-be-think-before-you-name-your-baby/
You are so right about Roc & Roe sounding like a food-court sushi place! It’s similar to why I gave up on a baby name I loved: Emery. So cute, until you realize it sounds like puppet Kim Jong Il from “Team America” saying “Emily.” (Ronery… oh so ronery…)
Are you kidding me? I give her a day….. No wait! Twins? I give her until noon…
Her “no nanny” policy is a train wreck I will happily watch. Wonderful post! Keep us laughing!
All I can say is that it is a large blessing that Mariah and Nick were not more fond of the nation Kyrgyzstan.
I hope she gets this letter! I can’t believe that Cinderella crib. Could you imagine changing in the middle of the night after a blowup or spit up!
Have you ever seen the humongous scary moon in Christina Aguilera’s nursery? It makes that giraffe look like a pink puppy pillow pet.
Also— love the reality show idea. It should be called “Rockabye Roc & Roe”. Catchy, right?
Best line:
Changing crib sheets within an enclosed circular pumpkin? Impossible.
I love this post so much I want to have twin babies with it and then name them with country-based adjectives.
(How come more people aren’t upset by that, by the way? MorocCO, maybe. MoroccAN? NO. Just no.)
she’s a liar, well maybe just stretching the truth. She’ll have a nanny on duty within days if she doesn’t have her assistants doing the jobs already. You don’t indulge in that kind of lifestyle and pretentious behaviour and just turn it off overnight. I’d love to see a pic of her stumbling through the night during a 3am feeding LOL
the woman is positively taste free.
Yes yes yes! Your name for the show is MUCH better. You should totally pitch that idea to someone….
Haha, this is hysterical! What is up with the darn pumpkin? really? And $30,000 for an impossible-to-change bed that doesn’t look entirely safe? Really??
Shaking my head. I hope she heeds your advice..
I know those financial acronyms and want to grab a brown paper bag to hyperventilate into.
anyway.
changing sheets, even crib sheets is sorta manageable. except when one has puked all over them. that’s totally the worst ever.
Yeah. I’m so far behind in celeb gossip I though she had twin boys, until I saw the photo.
I don’t think the no nanny thing will fly for long. Hell, I’d have a Nanny if I could justify it…
All that white. I want to see an “after” photo in a year.
I wanna see that nursery after 1 WEEK with ACTUAL twin babies.
Oh, and I think you are hilarious.
I actually think Mariah is insane, but I kept reading because I couldn’t stop – just couldn’t.
I have lost all my nails changing my (only one) daughter’s crib sheets. And my nails don’t have sparkly rainbows and butterflies adhered to them by professionals. They’re just real-mama nails.
Changing crib sheets is hellacious. Let’s see Mariah do that.
Hilarious.
“Morroccan? We love countries in adjective form.” Such special times await you.”
This makes me miss you already.
Just catching up on this one and I say to you, “Hats off, Humanitarin!” I think Mariah owes you a solid.
That’s right “humanitarin.” If I have to tell you what that means, well, shame on you. I will not be accused of wanton acts of typos. Good day, madam.
Haha! So funny! Monroe after her bIggest role model and morrocan after her decor in her apartment. What? Oh and she had days of “treatments” before the birth where she would sit in a copper tub while watching dolphins. She said it brought out her “inner ocean”. Weird.
Amen, sistah!
(I think I just peed my pants laughing at this, BTW: another thing Ms Carey is going to have to del with post-delivery.)
Came from TRDC.
Bwahaha! I do LOVE that nursery though. If she’s not hiring a nanny, this will be interestng. I can’t wait for the interviews she’ll give a year from now about how it was so easy to do it all herself (or will Nick Cannon do all of the talking?)
Mariah is going to do great. All signs point to natural mother….
Meanwhile, I went and checked out that moon in Aguilera’s kid’s room. OH. MY. GOD.
Oh My, that giraffe is INSANE!! And right next to the crib??! I’m a grown woman, and that thing would freak ME out in the dark, during the night.
They are ridiculous.
It’s just so….I can’t….Oh my… Wow.
First, Roc and Roe? Like Rock and Roll? Oy.
And that nursery? All that crap isn’t going to make her feel any better when it’s 3 am and her kids are screaming.
I think she had better follow your advice.
loved this. LOVED. “Countries in adjective form”…sheer brilliance. still laughing.
Oh man, hubby just had the best comment. If they did the “Bennifer” thing with the twins, they could call them Moron.
You kill me.
We had twins at our hospital once “Determined” and “Determination”…and no their mom couldn’t afford a nanny.
Don’t you know that having a babies changes the way people are most of the time?
I don’t recognize this despot-loving Carey. If someone could help me find the Mariah Carey from my childhood, who was once held up as a icon, that would be great.